How to Spend Money

I love this story from Gene Hackman about lending some money to Dustin Hoffman in their younger days and how Hoffman used to budget his money:

Hoffman’s mason jar strategy is probably better than 90% of the budgets in this country for the simple fact that many households don’t have one.

You can find information about markets and investing everywhere these days from 24-hour financial news networks to financial media outlets to books to social media to blogs and message boards.

Personal finance advice is now as abundant as it’s ever been as well but there’s one area that gets little attention — spending money.

No one ever teaches you about how to spend money.

One of the reasons this is the case is because budgeting is a four-letter word in personal finance.

No one enjoys budgeting because the entire concept generally makes people feel bad about themselves. Yet understanding how and where you spend your money is perhaps one of the most important aspects of a solid financial plan.

If you don’t know where all your money goes it’s going to be impossible to know where your priorities lie. Dustin Hoffman’s mason jar budget was all about putting some boundaries on his priorities. Yes, it’s a form of mental accounting but most financial decisions are driven by heuristics such as bucketing your cash in different areas.

So Michael and I decided to do a deep dive on budgeting and spending.

We discuss:

  • Why people hate budgeting
  • Aligning your spending with your priorities
  • The challenges of keeping your lifestyle inflation in check
  • The mental accounting involved in budgeting
  • Figuring out your non-negotiable spending buckets
  • Today guy versus tomorrow guy
  • The Nick Magguilli rule of spending and saving
  • The 2 types of budgets
  • The benefits of automation in your finances
  • Can I afford this?
  • Why fixed costs matter more than variable costs
  • Why you need to track your spending for at least a month
  • The 50/30/20 rule of spending
  • Finding the trade-offs of spending
  • How do you know how much house you can afford?
  • Budgeting and marriage
  • Predictable vs. unpredictable expenses
  • Making your emergency fund obsolete
  • Where does debt fall in a budget?
  • The biggest budget busters and more

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